my husband is my husband. he is not yours. i dont understand why no one can mind their own buissness. he does nothing wrong and works his ass off at work everyday so i dont have to work. who gives a shit about what he does or what he has done in his past. i have to deal with it not you. is pot is the worst thing he is doing then so be it. at least he doesnt beat me or cheat on me. get the fuck over it and worry about your own relationships.